should i press charges?

[Matt Macdowel]

well a few days ago i was walking to my locker and some girl grabbed my private area and its been on my mind for a few days. Now everyone knows im a celibate and i was wondering if i should press charges or not. i don't know this person at all!

[Eagle Kammback]

Just ignore it man, pressing charges will just make you look like a jerk

[Guest FoXXX]

Tell her not to touch you unless she means business

[fox1235]

I don't think you should get the police involed but maybe the school.

[Kursed]

I don't think you should get the police involed but maybe the school.

this is  what you should probably do.

[Matt Macdowel]

good point hmm i heard some things about her like alot of rumors but idk if there true or not!

["User"]

I'm in agreement with what others have posted so far. I've been the victim of that kind of stuff before with my friends who are straight but like to act gay on occasion for shits and giggles.  Despite how it may bother you if I were in your shoes with the whole celibate thing I'd ignore it if this was a one time occurrence and only look into it further if this touching becomes a recurring theme.  Getting the police involved prematurely won't help your cause.

good point hmm i heard some things about her like alot of rumors but idk if there true or not!

In addition if I were you I'd avoid looking into the rumor mill on others.

[Matt Macdowel]

still's i was talking to my friend witch he knows the girl well apprently she has some hornoms or whatever like that!

[Mr. Foxer]

So you say he shouldn't tell someone just because it will make him look like a jerk? This is serious, if you really didn't feel comfortable with them doing such a thing, for sure you should tell someone.

[Guest Julius Quasar]

Remember the the R's of sexual abuse/harassment:

Recognize

Resist

Report

You should report this, to the school, your parents, and, in extreme cases, a police report, although this is another kid touching you, not an adult, so I think for now you should tell the school and your parents.

["User"]

So you say he shouldn't tell someone just because it will make him look like a jerk? This is serious, if you really didn't feel comfortable with them doing such a thing, for sure you should tell someone.

I'm not saying he shouldn't tell ANYONE, but then again every person is unique in how they deal with a situation like this.  Age also plays a primary factor in how something like this is handled, and I guess I made my post without taking into full consideration how he truly feels about something like this.  I posted my advice based more on how I would handle the situation and for that I apologize.

Matt considering you're a younger individual (in high school?) if it bothers you that much than my all means don't keep this to yourself. That's sexual harassment and the consequences to that girl would be quite high if she was another student.  If I was your age I'd do, IMO, the morally right thing and bring this to the attention of a school administrator.  That being said I would keep it more confidential and low key and if anyone outside an authoritative body asks you about the incident just appear to brush it off or something to draw attention away from yourself

[Sabre]

Hmm. Interesting. On the one hand, famanists and police claim this never happens, and would report you if you did it to them.

On the other hand, I've had my arsed squeezed a few times. No big deal.

My advice, guage intent. If it wasn't millisious, I'd say leave it, if it was, I say report.

OT, but I think selubacy is a dumb idea.

[Matt Macdowel]

I'm not saying he shouldn't tell ANYONE, but then again every person is unique in how they deal with a situation like this.  Age also plays a primary factor in how something like this is handled, and I guess I made my post without taking into full consideration how he truly feels about something like this.  I posted my advice based more on how I would handle the situation and for that I apologize.

Matt considering you're a younger individual (in high school?) if it bothers you that much than my all means don't keep this to yourself. That's sexual harassment and the consequences to that girl would be quite high if she was another student.  If I was your age I'd do, IMO, the morally right thing and bring this to the attention of a school administrator.  That being said I would keep it more confidential and low key and if anyone outside an authoritative body asks you about the incident just appear to brush it off or something to draw attention away from yourself

well im 15. But i don't wanna get  the school administers oh hell ive got alot of problems with them right now!

@sabre its celibacy and its very personal

[Eagle Kammback]

I've had one girl and one guy do it to me, I just ignored them, and it never happened again, though if he did it again, I would have clocked him

I tried to get the girl's number haha, but she said she only did it to make $5, and apologized to me

It is the same thing as bullying, ignore it, and it will stop, they don't get any satisfaction if they realize you just don't care

[Sarita]

I think reporting it after an isolated incident is stupid. Celibate or not it just makes you look like a whiny kid. If she does it again tell her off, and a third time report her.

I go off a three strikes system for most things that bother me, and it works.

[Guest DRL]

still's i was talking to my friend witch he knows the girl well apprently she has some hornoms or whatever like that!

You just wait 'till your are in hormones

too.

No... Seriously, taking it into legal matters

would make you look like some random moron.

She only touched you... It is not THAT big.

If she continues to do it, however, then do report

it. It means she wants something with you... but

ONLY if she does it again...

[Asper Sarnoff]

Take it as a compliment! Whistle after her as she goes by, wink.

Well, considering you, oddly, didn't enjoy getting grabbed by a woman, I think you shouldn't bother to much about it. Unless it happens again that is, in which case, report it to your school.

[Sabre]

I think reporting it after an isolated incident is stupid. Celibate or not it just makes you look like a whiny kid. If she does it again tell her off, and a third time report her.

I go off a three strikes system for most things that bother me, and it works.

But women are encouraged to report isolate inncidents.

[Matt Macdowel]

just the way she grabbed me is what been on mind she grabbed my private area then looked right into my eyes and smiled and walk away and yes drl  i am already been there and done that crap!

[Guest DRL]

just the way she grabbed me is what been on mind she grabbed my private area then looked right into my eyes and smiled and walk away and yes drl  i am already been there and done that crap!

Maybe she likes you...

[Matt Macdowel]

Maybe she likes you...

thats bad...................... as celibate i can't have someone falling in love with me NOW WHAT DO I DO!

[Guest DRL]

thats bad...................... as celibate i can't have someone falling in love with me NOW WHAT DO I DO!

You just ignore it and that is all.

When your hormones kick in,

you will regret saying you wanted

celibate.

And I do mean it. I got a 'late'

reaction, which means, until 16

I used to say pretty much the same

thing. Since I used to be a cyborg-fan-of

I used to say stuff such as "sex is useless,

as it is improductive" and like that.

Just give yourself some time... Unless

you are willing to get into one of the

western religion´s hierarchy, then celibate

is not something you can hold for much.

You see... when hormones kick in, you regret

not having a girlfriend...  :lol:

[Matt Macdowel]

LIES

but good point!!!!!

but stills what if she continues this? im afraid to say no or anything i might regret because my school would defintly go after for me it saying more bs about me!

[Mr. Foxer]

Ew girls.

[Matt Macdowel]

Ew girls.

lol but sersiouly what do i do?